5 Tips If You’re Writing Your College Essay On Losing A Loved One

Last year we published an essay by Holly Kellner titled, “Why Having Conversations or Writing College Essays On Your Story of Loss Is Okay.” Since …
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Why I Decided To Do Genetic Testing

A few months ago I started getting this urge to find out about my genetics and my heritage. I really wanted to be able to …
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I Wish My Mom Was Around To See Me Grow Up

I wish my mom could see me grow up. I know that sounds silly since I’m almost 21 years old, but, lately, I’ve felt …
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How I Make Major Life Decisions After Losing My Parents

I’m 25, so I am officially a quarter of a century old. I’ve started to feel the pressure that society puts on 20-somethings to …
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A Letter To My Mom On Her 10th Death Anniversary

A Letter To My Mom On Her 10th Death Anniversary

Dear Mom,  I’ve been sitting on my couch by the glow of the Christmas tree, with my cats curled up beside me, trying to figure out what it is I wanted to write to you.…

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Sometimes You Just Need A Friend Who Gets What Losing A Loved One Is Like

Sometimes You Just Need A Friend Who Gets What Losing A Loved One Is Like

I am the oldest of four daughters and lost my mom to cancer when I was 10 years old. Having a parent who is sick is a very strange experience. Part of my childhood will…

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Dating Me Means Having The Honor To Figure Out Life and Loss Alongside Me

Dating Me Means Having The Honor To Figure Out Life and Loss Alongside Me

Vivian, our Too Damn Young founder, recently wrote a response to the recent Huffington Post article, “What It Is Like to Date a Girl Without a Mother.” She found it to be simplistic, demeaning, and…

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It’s Okay To Be Angry At Someone Who Died

It’s Okay To Be Angry At Someone Who Died

Last night I was sitting in a loud beer hall having what could only be qualified as a quiet conversation. The kind where the sentences are punctuated by tears and the tears are brought on…

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Why I May Want To Keep My Dad’s Last Name

Why I May Want To Keep My Dad’s Last Name

Growing up in a Christian home, it was never even a question of whether or not I would take my future husband’s last name. When you believe that marriage is a union under God and…

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You Can’t Force Grief Counseling

You Can’t Force Grief Counseling

There are a lot of different reasons that people seek professional help for mental health related issues. For me, I have sat in the chairs of different therapists since I was in the 4th grade.…

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