12 Years Too Many

12 Years Too Many

Here’s what I know: 12 years does not make losing my mom easier, those years just make it even more unbelievable. “She’s been gone longer than I ever had the chance to know her,” is an actual line I threw…

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Day 7 of #Grief365: A Low Day After Losing Someone You Love

Day 7 of #Grief365: A Low Day After Losing Someone You Love

12 years of loss have taught me that low days happen. They don’t have to feel especially sadder than the last, or have something that makes you think this is a “low day.” For me,…

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Gilmore Girls Fans, Help Ed Herrmann’s Family Raise Money For Brain Cancer Research

Gilmore Girls Fans, Help Ed Herrmann’s Family Raise Money For Brain Cancer Research

If you’re a Gilmore Girls fan than you know that last week the head of the Gilmore Girls family, Richard Gilmore, passed away. Edward Herrmann died at the age of 71 from GLioblastoma, a brain tumor.…

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Day 6 of #Grief365: Ned Vizzini, It’s Kind of a Funny Story and Wanting The Shift

Day 6 of #Grief365: Ned Vizzini, It’s Kind of a Funny Story and Wanting The Shift

After I read the beautiful essay Ned Vizzini’s best friend wrote for MTV, commemorating his death anniversary, I knew I had to pick up one of his books. January 6th will forever be known as…

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Friend Pays Tribute to Ned Vizzini’s Life In MTV Article

Friend Pays Tribute to Ned Vizzini’s Life In MTV Article

When someone dies, people tend to focus on the person’s death, instead of on their life. At least those who never knew him or her. A few weeks ago I read on MTV.com, “A Year Without Ned…

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Day 5 of #Grief365: When Your Friends Make It Okay For You To Have A Bad Day

Day 5 of #Grief365: When Your Friends Make It Okay For You To Have A Bad Day

There’s a thin line between pity and support. One of the many fears I developed after I lost my mom, and later my grandma, was whether or not those around me would pity me, or see…

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